It is in the tutorial! Oh the challenges of the simple things.
No. It is just more of a .NET thing. This is intentionally left off as many times you do not want these showing up in the toolbox. As your application grows, you may even want to turn off the auto-populating of the toolbox as this can become frustrating waiting on Visual Studio to load this. We actually turn this off an manually create tabs of items that we want to drop on forms. Also, we actually update the designer file manually to add BOs, etc. just to save time. This is not something I am recommending, just another perspective that may help down the road.