Scott,I am a bit confused on your post when you are referring to the BOs being bound and the "search." Are you using a BrowseDialog as your "search" or something you have created that is just a form with BOs dropped on it. Secondly, you mentioned copying data into the SFSUsers BO...if you are copying in a DataTable then you are going to have issues with this BO. If you manually use the Add and the wrapper properties on the SFSUsersBO then you can create a new SFSUsers record successfully.
If I understand you correctly, then everything that you want to do can be done, I just think you may be going at it the wrong way. Sorry for the ambiguous post