There's a user contributed example on how to subclass a listview to add that functionality, but i see no reason for not implementing that into stataframe natively.
It's something a user really expects, when working with a list of datasets.
Could be a property like "SyncSelectionWithBO" or "SyncAttachedListviewSelection" or whatever
Also a strataframe version of the datagrid would be really appreciated
Maybe some Moderator can move this post ?