ok. Did a bit of searching around and found a property on the child form called: AutoShowSaveChangesMessage and I set this to false. This does not put up the messagebox, and it also does NOT seem to save the data back to the server.... which is exactly what I am looking for..maybe if there is something else I need to do somebody might jump in

I have a Parent Form With a listbox of children (that is initially empty)and also a ChildDialogue control. I have an Add button  that calls the Child Form. When I close the child form, SF asks me do I want to Save. If I say yes, the Child and parent are saved. If I say no, the Child Business object acumulates as i hit the Add button again and again, which is the behavior I want, but without the question.

How do I get the Child Form NOT to ask me "Do I want to save". I may want to go back to the parent form without doing a Save but also without losing the children. When I am completely finished, I have a 'Save' button on the Parent Form and want to do all the databse updating from the parent form