Sample Database Deployment Class with pre-built dialogs.

I want to use my own custom install form, but want to allow the user to select the SQL Server to use. Actually I like the prebuilt dialogs with the exception of the "Select Meta-Data Package" dialog which would probably confuse many novice users. Is there a way to use the prebuilt dialogs but to skip this one form?

Is there a way to call the functionality or form where the user can "Select SQL Server" and the ones that follow it?

Also the last form to display "Deployment Complete" indicates to the user "to review the log to determine if there were any errors" but the user would not know where the log file is located.