I would like to deploy packages remotely. Is it possible to use a TCP/IP library with the Dbengine? This is how I've connected normal SF apps to remote db via a vpn. Or is there another way? I'm cautious about installing an app on a production db server.

Well, I did some sniffing....and it worked. The DDT had no problem connecting. I'm guessing I probably fubared typing in the password, or used a non-server admin account or something stupid like that. Thanks for the help and sorry for the trouble.

Well, I didn't think it made any sense   I am glad you got it working.